Sighz... how would you people treat people who are actually crumbling away inside yet acting strong AND irritating on the outside? Do you push them so they crumble? Do you help them even though they're irritating. Do you just ignore them and leave them to crumble somemore? Would it be easier to crumble them first then rebuild them? I don't know. Humans are weird things... based on a really fascinating program. While self-esteem and self worth is still present, indicated by pride, it would be easier to increase self-esteem and decrease pride just by being friendly and helpful and praising the person. The person would have a better sense of increased self worth. But if a person has low self-esteem and no pride anymore, how would she go if you become a friend to her. Would she take you as a lover BECAUSE you represent all that's right with the world? Because you're her angel? Would her sense of self worth be entirely dependent on your approval, because she has no other way of obtaining approval from society? Would she even have a sense of pride in herself? Or attribute all that change she has undergone to her savior? And thus continue to think that she's nothing in this world.. Actually words are starting to fail me here. I can't explain what I see. Or think now. It's pretty obvious.. but there's no vocab for it. each sentence above has something missing... something that I've tried (rather awkwardly) to fix.
posted by Downhere. @ 9:33 am
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