Yourself?

[online for a -brief- period of time. can't believe i'm actually doing this. bother chinese... it was my worst subject in the exams, unless you count amaths before moderation.]

friends? i dunno. sometimes it just *happens*. i'd tend to think that you can be better friends with people whom you know better, whom you've spent more time with. most people are pretty likeable underneath, despite whatever exteriors they portray. as to good friends--that depends on how much both of you are willing to open up to each other. and if it's a relatively deep exchange and if both sides see it as being a fair exchange, then there you go! but yes. i think that friends, and not just mere acquaintaces, are acquired over time. as you get to know each other, trust each other, make yourself vulnerable to each other.

i agree that scents are important!! haha. tend to notice people's smells. funny how some people can 'personalise' as scent such that when you smell it you think of that person. usually i have some form of a blocked nose though so can't smell very much. :) to gabriel, no, not all girls have a scent. only those who use scent-ish stuff. :) actually i read somewhere that each person has his/her own personal smell [like fingerprints]... not too sure about that. quite an interesting thought.

back to friendship, i agree with bun: "i've been in too many different places, been forced to shift too many times, broached trust, got up and left. it's hard to form relationships to last when you don't know if they'll be broken up in a few months." okay not -me-, but i get the gist. good friendships are very trusting ones. but i'm the sort who needs friendships. too bad about the pain--guess it comes with it; the price to pay. and it's not one i mind paying, as long as there's someone there. i like love!! :)

gtg now. be back after nov8.

posted by 'liane @ 10:49 pm